@staff Your mobile app just straight up is losing activity notes. Last week I didn’t get an ask on my mobile activity even while I was staring at the ask on my desktop app.

Today, someone reblogged a post from me, but when I checked my activity tab, it wasn’t reflected. You can see below the reblog on my dash followed by me subsequently looking at my activity tab. Please fix.

vivalbertine:

waylaidbyspace:

mercy-misrule:

sparkldog:

vivalbertine:

vivalbertine:

hey since I just told a friend this and they found it helpful: if you’re having hallucinations and are having trouble distinguishing what’s real and what’s not, use your phone’s camera and take a picture of the thing you might be hallucinating. cameras don’t hallucinate.

hey maybe reblog this for other neurodivergent people to see please?

sometimes ur own hallucinations may show up on camera or on a recording if its an auditory hallucination, so if ur unsure and have someone you trust, you can try sending the picture or recording to them and asking them what they see/hear too!!

I’ve only ever had like three or four instances of visual hallucinations but a friend who has them regularly

says that the way she checks is that she takes off her glasses, and if the image is still in perfect focus, that’s a hallucination

that might not work for everyone, but it might be helpful for some!

When I thought I was hearing a roommate/family member in the next room and thought they were talking to me, and couldn’t tell if they were actually in there or not and if they were actually saying those things (and usually the things they were saying were pretty bizarre and mean), if I put on headphones and blasted music and could still hear them clearly then I could tell it wasn’t them and I was hallucinating (so bascially similar to the eyeglasses post above, but on the auditory side of things). Headphones and music are great for fact-checking or for helping to block the quieter things out.

these r all gr8

aroaceinyourface:

a-polite-melody:

There isn’t an epidemic of asexual people telling people not to show PDA at pride. There’s an epidemic of people making posts about asexual people doing that. There have been one or two posts from asexual people along those lines, but people are making it out to be a widespread issue when it’s not, and people are believing it and blowing it up more.

If someone wants to show me more asexual people genuinely being homophobic by saying not to do things like kissing/other publicly appropriate PDA at pride to prove to me that there is this epidemic. Go right ahead. But until then, I’ve seen about 20 or 30 times the number of posts from exclusionists saying this is a widespread problem than people actually being homophobic about PDA.

^this

It’s literally a non-issue