Like people not being used to it where I live, I can understand that. But thinking it’s messed up??

To add some context, the woman is dealing with some shit and she’s taking it out on my mom — which my mom 100% does not deserve from her. This woman has kids on the cusp of adulthood who don’t get along with her/she doesn’t get along with them, and I’m betting the reality is that she’s incredibly jealous but also judgmental in the sort of way that’s like, ‘if I had the opportunities you did, I wouldn’t mess them up like you are,’ and it is entirely wrong of her.