being gay is just a constant cycle of realizations like…. wow this is why i do that….. wow homophobia impacted me like this,,, wow i do THIS because i’m gay…….. and this………. AND this
i think this is why it’s so frustrating when people say “you’re more than just your sexuality” and “don’t see yourself as JUST gay” because my experiences as a gay person shaped every aspect of my life, my mental health, and my personality