Listen, if you say you support all multisexuals then you actually have to support us.
Meaning you agree that bisexual means 2 or more, and you believe that polysexuals and pansexuals are valid.
It means you don’t reblog awful things like “there are totes fake bi girls!”
It means you don’t say that bisexuals are innately transphobic for not being pan instead.
It means you don’t promote negative stereotypes such as we are all cheaters, we’ll leave you for someone else, we do it all for attention, etc.
It means you don’t question any of us and our past relationships. It means you don’t demand proof of our sexuality.
It means you don’t say that we can’t identify with more than just one multisexual label.
It means you listen to the statistics and believe our stories about abuse, especially abuse due to our sexuality, and bi/pan/polyphobia.
It means that if our sexual and romantic orientations don’t match (such as an aromantic bisexual) then you still see us as valid and don’t harass us for it. You don’t tell us that our mix-matched identity is the course of ours or other’s abuse.
And if you yourself are a multisexual it means you respect the other multi- labels and stand in solidarity. It means you don’t act like your label is superior. It means you don’t throw the rest under the bus.
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